This week’s edition comes a day early for reasons that will be apparent after you have read the post. – BT

The words of two young men. They are near the same age, one 29 and the other 31. Both are loved by their families and friends. Both have walked deep into the cold shadow of death. Both speak of what they have seen. There are differences between the two young men, as well. Elliot, 31, a Brit, has lived a privileged life, is articulate and successful. He has traveled the world. Jacob, 29, an American, has, by his own reckoning, struggled to succeed. His words do not flow smoothly. His world is small, limited by the circumstance of birth and race and choices he has made. Elliot is white. Jacob is black.
Elliot will die soon, perhaps within a few weeks. Jacob will live, perhaps, though, as a paraplegic.
Most of us know a little about Jacob Blake, the 29-year old American who was shot in the back during an altercation with the police in Kenosha, Wisconsin. I first heard about Elliot Dallen when I read his eloquent essay in the Guardian a couple of days ago. At 31, I have just weeks to live. Here’s what I want to pass on. I have been thinking about it ever since.
I encourage you to stop now and read Elliot Dallen’s piece. 1,800 words; it won’t take long. But you may pause to think for much longer than it takes to read what he writes. Continue reading



