Eighteen years ago, sociologist Robert Putnam published Bowling Alone a book-length essay describing one of the most dangerous phenomena of our time. The title comes from the observation that while bowling is still a popular sport in America, fewer bowlers bowl in leagues and more bowlers bowl alone. Putnam’s point, of course, is not about trends in bowling. His point, well-illustrated, is that we spend less time with one another than ever before. Locked in our houses, glued to our screens, we are not only alone, but lonely. We have lost “social capital,” the one-another resource that nurtures, strengthens, and encourages a healthy person, family, and culture. We weren’t meant to be alone.
Robert Putnam was examining American society. But the contagion of loneliness does not stop at the church door. The infection of loneliness in the church makes for anemic Christians and weak witness.
We weren’t meant to be alone (see Genesis 2:18). And that’s why I love Thursday evenings. Continue reading