Dale is a very good friend. A recently retired professor, he recently wrote a very good blog post, “What Good Health is For,” reflecting on what is important in the next chapter of his life. There’s one line in the post that struck me, though. In passing, Dale mentions bucket lists, a term made famous a few years ago in the Jack Nicholson and Morgan Freeman movie of that name. Spoiler Alert! This clip captures the message of the movie very well. Movieclips.com calls the scene “He Saved My Life,” from one of the lines the Nicholson character delivers. So, in his post, my friend Dale tells us he has nothing against bucket lists, and there is no reason in the post for him to have anything against bucket lists. But I do have something against bucket lists.
A bucket list is a list of things to do before we kick the bucket. I worry when people actually get serious about a bucket list – or a “Thirty before Thirty” list (thirty things to do before you reach age 30) or the like. Continue reading



