Becky and I just returned from a road trip to Memphis, Tennessee, where we enjoyed a wonderful post-Christmas visit with our daughter, son-in-law, and most-amazing-in-the-whole-world 11-month old grandson. From mid-morning on the drive down to early afternoon on the trip back, we were south of the Mason-Dixon line – a few miles of Maryland and West Virginiaand then a long north to south (and south to north) though the mountains of western Virginia and finally Tennessee from the northeast corner to the southwest corner (and southwest corner to northeast corner), nearly 500 miles of the Volunteer state. Bucksnort at Exit 152 on I-40 west of Nashville is our favorite place name of the whole long trip.
There is that charm thing about the American South. From convenience store workers to restaurant wait staff, hotel clerks to the members of Riveroaks Presbyterian Church, we encountered nothing but “Yes, sir” and “Yes, ma’am” and “How y’all doin’?” as if they really cared about how we all were doing.
The line, of course, is that Southern charm is a mile wide and an inch deep. Maybe so, I still like it. Even if the waiter doesn’t really care how we all are doing, it was nice to be asked. Continue reading